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From Hardy Stock
Hem Lama
By
Amar B. Shrestha
Hem Lama spent much of his childhood in Burma (now Myanmar) although
his roots lie in Bhojpur. Returning to Nepal in 1965, he became
the treasurer of the All Nepal Lawn Tennis Federation in 1969.
He then went on to open his own institute, the popular Hem's Tennis
Academy, and has trained countless young and aspiring tennis players
over the decades.
His day begins at 5:30 am when he prepares his own breakfast.
“I am a teetotaler and I don’t smoke,” he says.
He also refrains from eating meat, fish or even eggs. “I
think my religious background is responsible for my aversion to
meat,” he explains. He is 77, yet it looks like he’s
in the prime of his life. He does not stoop; his muscles are still
sinewy and there is no hint of fat, nor that most accursed baggage
of most Nepali elders – a paunch. As for his stamina, he
is engaged in one of the most strenuous of sports throughout the
day, teaching tennis to more than a score of young enthusiasts.
So, how does he maintain his youthfulness? Perhaps it is his diet.
Two slices of bread with butter or honey, one mug of creamy milk,
one boiled potato or carrot, one banana, a piece of cheese, sometimes
oats or cornflakes, and yes, fruit juice first and foremost. This
then is Hem Lama’s power breakfast and it is his principal
meal of the day. At exactly noon, he partakes of a frugal lunch
of a little rice and dal. His day is mostly spent playing tennis,
his first love, and so work is but a pleasure. However, he does
like to watch comedies on television and says, “I like Haribansha
and Madan Krishna’s comedies as well as ‘Tito Satya’
hosted by Dipak Raj Giri, who has a terrific sense of humor. His
political satires are really good.” A man who likes to read
regularly, Hem Lama mentions Salman Rushdie’s ‘The
Ground beneath our Feet’ and Shiv Khera’s ‘You
Can win’ as current favorites. Supper is taken at five in
the evening and that too is a small affair. By eight, he is off
to bed.
“I want people to know more about my tennis academy than
about me,” declares Hem Bahadur Lama, founder/director of
Hem’s Tennis Academy (HTA), perhaps the only such academy
in the country. Such an institute wouldn’t have been possible
without the single minded commitment of the man who is essentially,
its sole driving force. Hem’s Tennis Academy is located
at 270 Tukucha Marg of Gairidhara - in fact on the premises of
his own home. The house itself is spartanly furnished and humble
in its outlook, truly an apt reflection of the owner, who is among
the few to actually follow a life based on the principle of ‘simple
living, high thinking.’ Established some 7-8 years ago,
the academy has a substantial number of students and a significant
number of successes too. The academy’s objective as stated
is ‘to impart standard courses and training methodically
and systematically to young children ranging in age from 5 to
13 years (admission age to the academy), and to produce tennis
champions for Nepal.’
HTA has given ample proof that it is capable of producing champions,
as in the year 2002 alone its students bagged 24 trophies and
medals in the sub junior and junior categories. Some outstanding
players that the academy has produced have represented the country
in ITF under-14 events in India, Pakistan, Myanmar, Sri Lanka,
Bangladesh, Hong Kong, Thailand and Vietnam. Utsab Rijal is one
such champion and he is currently ranked, nationally, among the
top five in the men’s division and has recently won a tennis
scholarship to attend college in Iowa, USA. Ramesh Karki, another
HTA product, is the number one in the juniors (under-18) category
and ranked 29th in Asia. Priti Rijal is number one in the under-18
women’s category. In addition, Priti is also among the top
three in the senior women’s rankings. There are yet others,
both boys and girls, who are shining bright on the tennis horizon
of Nepal. These include Gagan Maharjan, Anjana Khadka, Kencho
Palden, Shaluni Lama, Shreeja Karki, Sunita Gurung, Meena Gurung,
Anushlea Joshi and Rinchen.
Hem Lama was treasurer of All Nepal Lawn Tennis Association (ANLTA)
from 1969 to 1980 and president from 1990 to 1993. In between,
he was responsible for introducing red-shale clay courts at the
HIT center in Koteshwor. So, one could say that Hem Lama is a
doyen of the sport in the country. As can be expected of a stern
taskmaster like him, entry into his academy is very selective
and, ‘based on talent and potential’ alone. Owing
to its size, the academy is not able to handle a larger number
of students.
His ancestral roots lie in Bhojpur, but he lived much of his young
life in Myanmar where his grandfather, the late KPMCH Rai Bahadur
Kul Bahadur Lama, OBI, was among the first four Gurkhas to be
promoted to Subedar Major. Hem Lama’s father, Subedar Dil
Bahadur Lama, was a Pioneer Engineer with the Burma Military Police.
Hem earned the degree of Registered Accountancy RA and also completed
his Banking Qualified Exams. For the next 15 years, he worked
at the State Commercial Bank and along with his wife and family,
returned to Nepal in 1965. “My wife, Ganga, died in 1997
of cancer and breathed her last in Florida,” he says. “She
was a tennis player herself and we had a solid marriage that lasted
44 years.”
Hem has three grown up sons and a daughter. Raj, the eldest, is
currently director of GCC Tennis Club of Gainsville, Florida,
while Poonam, the eldest daughter, is the only woman member of
the Nepal Olympic Committee. Besides this, Poonam has had an outstanding
career as a national table tennis player and has represented the
country several times in international events. She has a Masters
in English and is the Principal of Nabha Deepti Primary School
which, again, is within the premises of Hem Lama’s home.
“The school is a non-profit venture and has about 65 students
out of which, almost 50 are orphans whom we educate free of cost,”
says Pooja. Pilot, and well-known actor, Captain Vijay Lama is
the third child while Sujay, the youngest, graduated from Iowa
and was head coach of the Women’s Tennis Team at the University
of Illinois for eight years. “Recently, he has been appointed
head coach at the University of Texas,” says the father
proudly.
Talking about his own achievements, Hem Lama thinks that winning
the triple crown in the Mahendra Golden Jubilee Celebration Tennis
Championship has been the high point in his tennis career in Nepal.
He says he was inspired by his uncle, KPMCH Rai Bahadur Subedar
Major N.S.Lama and began to play tennis at the age of sixteen.
He also plays the harmonium, likes to compose music, and says,
“I have enough knowledge to be able to distinguish notes.”
Besides, he has also written a few articles and has written, directed
and produced a movie, ‘Adarsha Nari’ featuring his
son, Vijay as the hero and daughter Poonam playing a negative
role. “The film cost me only about 15 lakhs to produce,”
he reveals. “And I must also mention that I have undertaken
the Association of Cinematography Course.” He has studied
screenplay writing, film editing, cinematography and direction.
While he enjoyed making the film, the post-production scenario
was not so pleasant. “There were too many hassles from distributors
and movie hall owners. I was disillusioned with film making.”
However, it seems that with time, he has gotten over his disenchantment
for he is planning to make another film, tentatively titled ‘Dalit
and Lalit’about untouchability.
Hem Lama has lived a full life and it is worth noting that he
also worked as an Administration Assistant at the USEF as well
as at the Ford Foundation for some years. Then for twenty-five
years, he ran a highly lucrative courier business, ‘Universal
Packers and Movers’ which had its offices in Durbar Marg.
“Because of my contact with expatriates through tennis,
my business did very well.” Obviously, those 25 years were
golden years for Hem Lama as far as the business of making money
was concerned. It is also obvious that throughout this time, Hem
Lama continued to play and coach tennis. “Yes, that’s
right. I continued to coach and have even given lessons to royalty
as well as to others, including expatriate children.” In
between, he established a school, ‘Lotus Eyes High School’,
which he and his wife ran and later sold after she passed away.
Such has been the life of a man who by all accounts, continues
to defy age and break new barriers. At an age when most would
call it quits, he continues to drive youngsters to reach their
full potential by setting an example of what can be achieved.
Lama has made it a personal mission to create tennis champions
for the country by establishing and running successfully, an academy
that has no parallel in Nepal. What is the secret behind such
an exemplary life? What is the source of his boundless enthusiasm
and his relentless zeal? The answer may be found in his extraordinary
discipline. Perhaps the answer lies in his ardent love of the
game of tennis. Or is it in his genes? For an answer, one has
only to look closely at the stern and long whiskered countenance
of KPMCH Rai Bahadur Subedar Major Kul Bahadur Lama, OBI, in a
framed photograph in his house, to know that Hem Bahadur Lama
comes from hardy stock.
Hem’s
Tennis Academy: Ph. 4411009, Mobile: 9803028977
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